Intrusive memories
Support for flashbacks, nightmares and re-experiencing.
Trauma Counselling · Lancing
Trauma Counselling for Lancing and the surrounding area, in person or online. Lancing, with its long shingle beach and the landmark chapel of Lancing College, lies west along the coast. From my room in nearby Hove I offer a calm, confidential space to do this work.

In and around Lancing
Life in Lancing
People carry difficult histories in every kind of town, and a quiet one by the sea is no exception. What brings someone to trauma counselling in Lancing might be a crash on the coast road, something from childhood, a frightening illness, an assault, or a long stretch in a job that involved seeing more than anyone should. The signs tend to be the same: sleep that never quite goes deep, a jump at a sudden noise, irritability that arrives from nowhere, and stretches of road or times of year quietly avoided. Much of it stays unspoken for years, managed privately while everything on the surface carries on as normal.
Areas covered
Wherever you are in Lancing, the work is the same, a calm, confidential space shaped around you.
The local picture
Official figures for Lancing, for context rather than as a description of you.
the rate of emergency hospital admissions for self-harm was 127.2 per 100,000 in 2023/24, above the England average of 117 per 100,000. Source: OHID Fingertips – Emergency Hospital Admissions for Intentional Self-Harm (2023/24).
Reviewed June 2026.
Trauma counselling here is gentle and led by you, drawing on methods designed for trauma including the Human Givens Rewind Technique, so a difficult memory is returned to ordinary recall.
Rather than say the same thing on every page, the substance lives on trauma counselling in detail, with how I work for the practical questions and my BACP registration for registration and ethics.
Sessions take place in a private, comfortable room at Intergen House on Western Road in central Hove, held to the strict BACP confidentiality you would expect. We begin with a free fifteen-minute call to check we are a good fit, and the same sessions are available by secure video if travelling is difficult or you would simply prefer it.
Trauma sessions are held in a private room in central Hove, twenty to twenty-five minutes east of Lancing, or online by secure video. Which you choose matters more in this work than in most, because feeling in charge of the arrangements is part of what makes it safe. The drive back gives some people the space they need after an hour like that. Others prefer never to leave the house at all.
Book a free 15-minute callWhat I help with
Support for flashbacks, nightmares and re-experiencing.
Help when your nervous system is stuck on high alert.
For when you cope by shutting down.
Healing the wound that drives the habit.
Reaching the quieter, accumulated hurts.
Working always at a pace that is led by you.
Trauma Counselling in Lancing
You will not be asked to go through the event. That needs saying early, because the assumption that counselling means describing the worst thing that ever happened keeps people away for years. It does not work that way here. The Human Givens Rewind Technique, which this work often draws on, deals with how a memory is held rather than what it contains, so the details can remain entirely yours. Before that we settle the present: sleep, triggers, and a clear agreement about how we slow down or stop. In West Sussex the self-harm admission rate was 127.2 per 100,000 in 2023/24, above the England average of 117 per 100,000. NHS West Sussex Talking Therapies offers a free trauma route by self-referral, and the Sussex Mental Healthline is answered at any hour.
Not sure if it is right for you? A free fifteen-minute call is a no-obligation way to talk it through.
Book a free 15-minute callMy counselling sits alongside the help available locally. In Lancing, you can refer yourself directly to NHS West Sussex Talking Therapies for free NHS talking therapy, with no GP referral needed.
Seeing me privately usually means you can start sooner and stay with the same counsellor throughout, working at greater depth and pace; the two can run side by side, and I am glad to work alongside any NHS or GP support you already have.
Other local and national support verified for this area includes:
This is not a crisis service. If anyone is in immediate danger call 999. For urgent mental health support, call NHS 111 and choose the mental health option. The Samaritans are free, day or night, on 116 123, or text SHOUT to 85258.
Lancing questions
In a private room at Intergen House on Western Road in central Hove. From Lancing it is a twenty to twenty-five minute drive east along the A259, or a short train journey, to reach Hove. Every service is also available by secure video across the UK, so you can meet from any private space in Lancing or blend the two.
A useful rough test is whether the memory behaves like the past. If it brings a physical reaction now, disturbs your sleep, or makes you avoid things, it is being held as unfinished rather than remembered. That is what this work addresses, and we can talk it through first.
An hour costs £80, ninety minutes £100, and a two-hour appointment £120. With a journey involved, some people prefer a longer appointment less frequently. The initial 15-minute consultation is free, so you can ask whatever you need to before committing to anything.
Yes. NHS West Sussex Talking Therapies accepts self-referrals and offers trauma-focused therapy at no charge. Demand is significant in a county where 24.5% of adults reported a high anxiety score in 2022/23. Many people register there and begin private work while they wait.
That is a very reasonable way to do it. Starting at home while you decide whether this suits you, then travelling once you feel steadier, is a common pattern. Nothing about the format is fixed and you can change it as the work goes on.
Not at all. Nothing said in a session goes anywhere else, within the usual confidentiality limits that I explain at the beginning, and there is no expectation that you tell anyone at home. Plenty of people do this work without anyone around them knowing.
Yes. Secure online video sessions bring the same gentle, paced trauma work straight to your home, which some Lancing clients prefer. When you would rather come in, my Hove room is a short train from Lancing Station or twenty to twenty-five minutes east by car.
We begin with a free fifteen-minute call, with no need to share detail, then a first session. Lancing Station is on the main line, east through Shoreham to Hove, or the A259 takes twenty to twenty-five minutes. If travelling feels too much, online video is always available.
Private sessions are £80 for an hour, £100 for ninety minutes and £120 for two, after a free consultation. You can self-refer to free NHS Talking Therapies for West Sussex; waits vary, and seeing me privately means gentle, sooner trauma work at a pace you set.
Some value the containment of the room for trauma work, while others feel safer on video at home; both suit the gentle Rewind Technique. The train makes either straightforward. You lead the pace, with evening and weekend slots to fit around work.
A free fifteen-minute call is the simplest place to start, no obligation, just a chance to see if we are the right fit.
Also available nearby: Shoreham-by-Sea, Worthing, Southwick. See all areas I cover.
People who come for trauma counselling in Lancing often also look at anxiety counselling, addiction counselling and psychotherapy.
Prefer to meet remotely? The same trauma counselling is available online by secure video across the UK, or see online counselling by region.