Communication and conflict
Breaking the cycle of the same argument.
Online Relationship Counselling · Reading
Online relationship counselling for Reading, by secure video, wherever you are. The hardest part is often just starting. Online relationship counselling keeps that first step small for people in Reading: a private hour from your own space, with no journey and nobody to bump into.
From the heart of Reading, near the Thames, the Oracle and the Kennet, out to its edges, from the centre and the university quarter to Caversham, Tilehurst and Earley, online sessions make it possible to get the right support without rearranging your whole day around a single appointment.
Hove is where my room is, but the support is not tied to Sussex. Over a secure link I work with people in Reading and far beyond, with the same depth and confidentiality as meeting face to face.
I also work online with people elsewhere in London & South East, including Slough, Oxford, Basingstoke.
If you would still prefer to meet in person and can travel to the Sussex coast, you are welcome to, but for most clients in Reading online relationship counselling is the natural and effective choice.
Life in Reading
Reading sits at the heart of the Thames Valley tech corridor, and with that comes a particular kind of pressure: demanding jobs, a long daily commute into London or along the M4, and a cost of living that keeps the foot on the accelerator. It is easy here for the days to blur together and for stress to harden quietly into something heavier.
Student and academic life can be intense and surprisingly lonely, even surrounded by people your own age. Working online keeps support steady through term and vacation alike, wherever you are.
What I help with
Breaking the cycle of the same argument.
Rebuilding safety after betrayal or addiction.
Finding your way back to closeness.
Sessions you can join from different places.
Working with people-pleasing and the need for control.
You do not need to come as a couple to change the dynamic.
Why online works in Reading
Sessions flex around the academic calendar and shift work, so support holds steady through the busiest weeks.
If you move, travel for work or split your time between places, online counselling carries on uninterrupted wherever you happen to be.
From Reading, there's no journey across town and no waiting room. You join from wherever feels safe, and the rest of your day simply carries on around the session.
Working online means people in Reading aren't limited to whoever practises locally. You can choose the counsellor who genuinely fits the issue you're facing, not just the nearest one.
Underneath the screen, the therapy itself works like this. My approach is integrative and person-centred. We are not looking for someone to blame, but at the system the two of you create together and where it gets stuck, drawing on relational therapy, Internal Family Systems and Human Givens approaches.
Sessions run over a secure video link. All you need is a private space where you won't be interrupted, a laptop, tablet or phone, and a reasonable connection. We begin with a free fifteen-minute call, then I send a simple link you click at the agreed time.
Read more about online counselling, about relationship counselling, or about my methods, sessions and fees.
Start the conversationMy online counselling sits alongside the help available locally, and it can be worth knowing what else is there. In Reading, you can refer yourself directly to NHS Talking Therapies Berkshire for free NHS talking therapy, with no GP referral needed. You can also find your nearest service through the NHS Talking Therapies finder.
Private sessions with me usually mean you can start sooner, stay with the same counsellor throughout, and work at greater depth and pace; the two can run side by side, and I'm glad to work alongside any NHS or GP support you already have.
This practice is not a crisis service. If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 999.
For urgent mental health support, call NHS 111 and choose the mental health option. The Samaritans are free, day or night, on 116 123, or text SHOUT to 85258.
Reading questions
Yes. I work with clients in Reading and right across the UK by secure video. You don't need to live near Brighton or Hove; online relationship counselling brings the same care to wherever you are.
We meet over a secure, private video link at a time that suits you. You'll need a quiet space, a device with a camera and a steady connection. We always begin with a free fifteen-minute call so you can ask questions and check the fit.
For most people, yes. Online therapy can be just as effective as meeting face to face, and many find it easier to open up from home. Everything is held with the same strict confidentiality as in-person work.
Yes. Sessions run on a secure, encrypted video link, and everything we discuss is held to the same strict BACP confidentiality as work done in person. All you need at your end is a private space.
Book a free fifteen-minute consultation. From Reading or anywhere in the UK, it's a no-obligation chance to see if we're the right fit before anything begins.
Prefer to meet face to face? See counselling across Brighton, Hove & Sussex, or read more about how online counselling works and about relationship counselling in depth.