Communication and conflict
Breaking the cycle of the same argument.
Relationship Counselling · Patcham
Relationship Counselling for Patcham and the surrounding area, in person or online. Patcham is a village-rooted suburb in the north of Brighton, close to the A23 and the edge of the Downs. From my room in nearby Hove I offer a calm, confidential space to do this work.

In and around Patcham
Patcham lies at the northern edge of Brighton beside the A23, close to the South Downs National Park.
Life in Patcham
Patcham keeps its old village core, with All Saints Church, the flint-walled Patcham Place and a historic dovecote tucked just off the roar of the A23. Around it, tree-lined avenues climb towards Ladies Mile and the open Downs, giving this northern corner of Brighton a settled, suburban calm. Families have lived here for generations, and the pace is gentler than the seafront's. That closeness can be a comfort, but it can also make it harder to talk openly about a struggle, when neighbours and school gates are familiar. A confidential counselling room down in Hove offers welcome distance and discretion, and online sessions mean support is available without leaving home at all.
Areas covered
Wherever you are in Patcham, the work is the same, a calm, confidential space shaped around you.
Relationship counselling here, for couples or individuals, slows down the pattern you are caught in and builds healthier ways of hearing and being heard.
The approach is the same wherever you come from, so rather than repeat it on every page you can read it in full, the methods, what each session covers and fees, on the main relationship counselling page and on how I work.
Sessions take place in a private, comfortable room at Intergen House on Western Road in central Hove, held to the strict BACP confidentiality you would expect. We begin with a free fifteen-minute call to check we are a good fit, and the same sessions are available by secure video if travelling is difficult or you would simply prefer it.
From Patcham the route runs south down the A23 and London Road into the city, then west to Hove, about fifteen minutes by car. Buses down the London Road corridor connect towards the centre and on to Western Road. There is parking near the room. When the journey feels like more than you want to manage, the same sessions run online by secure video.
Book a free 15-minute callWhat I help with
Breaking the cycle of the same argument.
Rebuilding safety after betrayal or addiction.
Finding your way back to closeness.
Sessions you can join from different places.
Working with people-pleasing and the need for control.
You do not need to come as a couple to change the dynamic.
Relationship Counselling in Patcham
Patcham's village calm and long-settled families are a real comfort, but that same closeness, with familiar neighbours and school gates, can make relationship trouble hard to speak about openly. Relationship counselling offers you and your partner a private hour, safely apart from the village, to slow the pattern down and hear one another again. You are welcome as a couple or on your own, since one person can begin to shift a stuck dynamic. The room is down in Hove, about fifteen minutes by car or bus, and online sessions offer the same discretion from home.
Not sure if it is right for you? A free fifteen-minute call is a no-obligation way to talk it through.
Book a free 15-minute callMy counselling sits alongside the help available locally. In Patcham, you can refer yourself directly to the Brighton and Hove Wellbeing Service for free NHS talking therapy, with no GP referral needed.
Seeing me privately usually means you can start sooner and stay with the same counsellor throughout, working at greater depth and pace; the two can run side by side, and I am glad to work alongside any NHS or GP support you already have.
Other local and national support verified for this area includes:
This is not a crisis service. If anyone is in immediate danger call 999. For urgent mental health support, call NHS 111 and choose the mental health option. The Samaritans are free, day or night, on 116 123, or text SHOUT to 85258.
Patcham questions
In a private room at Intergen House on Western Road in central Hove. From Patcham it is roughly fifteen minutes down the A23 and London Road into the city, then west to the Hove office. Every service is also available by secure video across the UK, so you can meet from any private space in Patcham or blend the two.
Yes. A great deal can change when one person shifts the pattern; you do not need to attend as a couple to do useful work.
Yes. Online makes it easy for couples in different places, or juggling childcare, to attend together.
No. We look at the pattern the two of you create together and where it gets stuck, not at who is to blame.
Yes. The room is down in central Hove, well away from Patcham's village and school gates, and you arrive straight to your appointment with no waiting room. It is about fifteen minutes by car or bus. If you would rather not travel, online sessions keep things entirely private.
Start with a free fifteen-minute call, then come over for your session. From Patcham the route runs south down the A23 and London Road into Brighton, then west to Hove, about fifteen minutes by car, with buses along the London Road corridor following much the same way.
Sessions are £80 for sixty minutes, £100 for ninety and £120 for two hours, after a free fifteen-minute consultation. The NHS seldom funds couples work, so most Patcham clients choose private sessions, valuing a discreet room away from familiar school gates and neighbours.
Yes. Couples are welcome in the Hove room, or you can share one secure video call from home, which many Patcham clients value when a struggle feels too close to home. Individuals can come alone too. Evening slots are available, and you can mix travelling in with online sessions.
Not especially. It is around fifteen minutes by car down the A23 and London Road into Brighton, then west to Hove, and buses follow much the same route. If crossing the city feels like too much, many Patcham clients prefer to meet online by secure video from home.
A free fifteen-minute call is the simplest place to start, no obligation, just a chance to see if we are the right fit.
Also available nearby: Preston Park, Hangleton, Brighton. See all areas I cover.
All counselling & therapy in Patcham: Addiction · Substance Use · Drinking Problems · Anxiety · Depression · Trauma · Counselling & Therapy · Psychotherapy.
Prefer to meet remotely? The same relationship counselling is available online by secure video across the UK, or see online counselling by region.