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Online Trauma Counselling · Oxford
Online trauma counselling for Oxford, by secure video. From a base in Hove I work with people across Oxford, from the city centre and Jericho to the streets around the dreaming spires, with the same BACP-registered, confidential support as an in-person session, and no journey.

In and around Oxford
Life in Oxford
Oxford carries an intensity all of its own. The academic calendar runs at a relentless pitch, and the expectation to perform, whether you are a student, an academic or working in one of the research and hospital institutions, can leave little space to admit you are struggling. Behind the postcard architecture, perfectionism and burnout are common companions.
Oxford holds two lives at once: the colleges and libraries of the University and Oxford Brookes, and the working city of Cowley, with the car plant, the John Radcliffe and the research and hospital campuses at Headington. Term time sets a demanding tempo for students and staff alike, while people in Jericho, Summertown and out towards Botley juggle high housing costs with jobs in academia, medicine and publishing. Beneath the honey-stone calm there is a lot of quiet striving. The pressure to keep achieving, to appear to be coping, can make it hard to say when you are not, and having somewhere impartial to be honest, away from the college or the department, can bring real relief.
Beneath a calm, historic surface, struggle can be hard to voice; a confidential online hour asks nothing of appearances.
Oxford is dominated by the University of Oxford and Oxford University Hospitals NHS Foundation Trust (John Radcliffe Hospital), and the BMW Mini plant at Cowley is a major local employer.
Areas covered
Wherever you are in Oxford, the work is the same, a calm, confidential space shaped around you.
The local picture
These figures are local context from official sources, not a description of you, but they show the scale of what people in and around Oxford are living with, and why local support matters.
the rate of emergency hospital admissions for self-harm was 97.3 per 100,000 in 2023/24, below the England average of 117 per 100,000. Source: OHID Fingertips – Emergency Hospital Admissions for Intentional Self-Harm (2023/24).
Local data last reviewed June 2026. Each figure shows the year and links to the official source it was read on.
Trauma counselling here is gentle and led by you, drawing on methods designed for trauma including the Human Givens Rewind Technique, so a difficult memory is returned to ordinary recall.
The approach is the same wherever you live, so rather than repeat it on every page you can read it in full, the methods, what each session covers and fees, on the main trauma counselling page and on how I work.
Sessions run over a secure, encrypted video link held to the same strict BACP confidentiality as meeting in person. After a free fifteen-minute call to check we are a good fit, you join each session from any private space using a phone, tablet or laptop, no software to install, no waiting room and no journey at either end.
Oxford's coach and rail links point mostly towards London, and getting to counselling elsewhere would mean giving up hours you may not have during term. Online sessions sidestep that entirely, fitting between lectures, clinics or shifts from wherever you are. The practice room is in Hove, an option if you can travel down to the Sussex coast for an in-person meeting, but for people in Oxford the work is done securely online around the academic week.
Book a free 15-minute callWhat I help with
Support for flashbacks, nightmares and re-experiencing.
Help when your nervous system is stuck on high alert.
For when you cope by shutting down.
Healing the wound that drives the habit.
Reaching the quieter, accumulated hurts.
Working always at a pace that is led by you.
Trauma Counselling in Oxford
In a city that runs at such an academic pitch, it is easy to push a difficult past experience aside and simply keep performing. Yet trauma has a way of surfacing regardless, in concentration that slips, in sleep that will not come, in a sense of being on edge that no amount of achievement settles. Oxford's culture of striving can make stopping to address it feel like a luxury you cannot afford. Trauma-focused counselling offers a contained, unhurried space to work through what happened at your own pace, held securely online so it fits discreetly around lectures, clinics or research.
Not sure if it is right for you? A free fifteen-minute call is a no-obligation way to talk it through.
Book a free 15-minute callMy online counselling sits alongside the help available locally. In Oxford, you can refer yourself directly to NHS Oxfordshire Talking Therapies for free NHS talking therapy, with no GP referral needed.
Private sessions with me usually mean you can start sooner and stay with the same counsellor throughout; I am glad to work alongside any NHS or GP support you already have.
Other local and national support verified for this area includes:
This is not a crisis service. If anyone is in immediate danger call 999. For urgent mental health support, call NHS 111 and choose the mental health option. The Samaritans are free, day or night, on 116 123, or text SHOUT to 85258.
Oxford questions
Yes. I work with people right across Oxford, from the city centre and Jericho outwards, and anywhere else in London & South East, by secure video, no need to travel to Hove, and just as confidential as meeting in the room.
No. Methods like the Human Givens Rewind let us process a memory without you reliving it or even speaking the detail aloud.
Yes, when it is paced carefully. We go slowly, keep you grounded, and you stay in control of what we approach and when.
We build in ways to settle and pause, and never move faster than feels safe. Being in your own space online can make that easier.
Yes. Sessions are online with nothing to travel to, so we can work around lectures, clinical rotas or research commitments, including quieter parts of the day. We also pace the work carefully, building safety before approaching anything difficult, which matters during a demanding term.
Often within a week of a free consultation. Bradley works online with Oxford clients, so there is no clinic to reach across the city. Doing trauma work from a private space of your own, in Jericho or Headington, can feel steadier and safer.
Trauma work is £80 for sixty minutes, £100 for ninety and £120 for two hours, with longer sessions often suiting it. NHS Oxfordshire Talking Therapies is free but frequently oversubscribed, so many Oxford people begin privately in order to be seen sooner.
Many Oxford clients find online trauma work just as containing, with their own surroundings to steady them between sessions. Bradley offers some evening slots around college and hospital hours, and the Hove room can be reached by train if meeting in person would help.
Online sessions keep things discreet. You join from your room or another private space, with no counselling room in town to walk into and no chance of passing someone you know on the way. Many students find that privacy makes it far easier to start.
Yes. Because nothing needs travelling to, we can settle on times that fit around clinical or lab rotas, including quieter parts of the day. If a shift changes we can be flexible, which is harder to manage with in-person appointments across the city.
A free fifteen-minute call is the simplest place to start, no obligation, just a chance to see if we are the right fit.
Also available online across London & South East: Reading, Aylesbury, High Wycombe, London. See all of London & South East.
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Closer to the Sussex coast? The same trauma counselling is available in person in Brighton & Hove, or see all in-person areas.