Intrusive memories
Support for flashbacks, nightmares and re-experiencing.
Online Trauma Counselling · Gateshead
Online trauma counselling for Gateshead, by secure video. From a base in Hove I work with people across Gateshead, from the Quays and the centre to the streets around the Angel of the North, with the same BACP-registered, confidential support as an in-person session, and no journey.

In and around Gateshead
Life in Gateshead
Some of what people carry in Gateshead has been carried a very long way. An injury on a shift that nobody followed up. A violent household in Saltwell or Winlaton that was never discussed outside the front door. Something in a uniform, or on a night out, or on a road. Emergency hospital admissions for self-harm ran at 182.8 per 100,000 in 2023/24, far above the England average of 117, which is one of the starker figures in the region. Trauma seldom arrives labelled. It arrives as sleep that breaks at the same hour, a startle at a slammed door, crowds along the quayside becoming intolerable, and a numbness other people mistake for not caring.
Areas covered
Wherever you are in Gateshead, the work is the same, a calm, confidential space shaped around you.
The local picture
Official figures for Gateshead, for context rather than as a description of you.
the rate of emergency hospital admissions for self-harm was 182.8 per 100,000 in 2023/24, above the England average of 117 per 100,000. Source: OHID Fingertips – Emergency Hospital Admissions for Intentional Self-Harm (2023/24).
Reviewed June 2026.
Trauma counselling here is gentle and led by you, drawing on methods designed for trauma including the Human Givens Rewind Technique, so a difficult memory is returned to ordinary recall.
The method travels; only the geography changes. trauma counselling in detail explains it properly, how I work answers the practical questions, and my BACP registration shows how the practice is held to account.
Sessions run over a secure, encrypted video link, held to the same BACP confidentiality as meeting in person. After a free fifteen-minute call, you join from any private space on a phone, tablet or laptop.
You will not need to travel anywhere or sit in a waiting area. Everything is by secure video into whichever space you feel safest in, because there is no in-person option this far from Hove. For trauma that turns out to matter. Your own door, your own surroundings, and no walk back afterwards through a busy street while you are still open. If a week is not the week for it, we spend it on something steadier and pick up later.
Book a free 15-minute callWhat I help with
Support for flashbacks, nightmares and re-experiencing.
Help when your nervous system is stuck on high alert.
For when you cope by shutting down.
Healing the wound that drives the habit.
Reaching the quieter, accumulated hurts.
Working always at a pace that is led by you.
Trauma Counselling in Gateshead
Before anything else: retelling the event is not part of this. The assumption that trauma counselling means describing the worst thing that has happened to you, in detail, to a stranger, is what keeps people away for years, and it is not how I work. The Human Givens Rewind Technique deals with the alarm your nervous system attached to the memory rather than the account of it, and it is carried out while you stay calm and in charge, without the content being spoken aloud. What we do talk about is how it shows up now - the sleep, the temper, the places you no longer go, the people you have stopped answering. You set the pace throughout. For accompanying anxiety or low mood, the national NHS Talking Therapies finder takes self-referrals in England, and Tyneside and Northumberland Mind covers this area.
Not sure if it is right for you? A free fifteen-minute call is a no-obligation way to talk it through.
Book a free 15-minute callMy online counselling sits alongside the help available locally. In Gateshead, you can refer yourself directly to NHS talking therapies for anxiety and depression, with no GP referral needed. You can find support through the NHS Talking Therapies finder.
Private sessions with me usually mean you can start sooner and stay with the same counsellor throughout; I am glad to work alongside any NHS or GP support you already have.
Other local and national support verified for this area includes:
This is not a crisis service. If anyone is in immediate danger call 999. For urgent mental health support, call NHS 111 and choose the mental health option. The Samaritans are free, day or night, on 116 123, or text SHOUT to 85258.
Gateshead questions
No. The Rewind Technique is specifically designed so that a spoken account is not needed, and I will not push you towards detail. Some people complete the work having described almost nothing about the event. The conversation is mostly about the present and its effects on you.
It is a structured, non-invasive process that settles the alarm response attached to a memory while you remain relaxed and in control from beginning to end. The memory stays with you; what changes is the charge on it. It is often done in a handful of sessions rather than open-ended work.
It is one of the most telling signs. Avoiding a street in Felling or Low Fell brings relief in the moment and keeps the alarm alive underneath. Once the charge on the memory has settled, those places usually stop landing so hard, and we approach them only at your pace.
Fees are £80 / 60 min, £100 / 90 min and £120 / 120 min, after a free 15-minute consultation. Rewind work often uses the 90-minute session so nothing is rushed at either end. I will not put a number on it before meeting you, but it is frequently shorter than people expect.
For the anxiety, sleeplessness and low mood that accompany trauma, NHS Talking Therapies takes self-referrals through the national finder, as there is no separately branded local team. Tyneside and Northumberland Mind covers this area. If you feel unsafe, contact a GP or NHS 111 the same day.
It can be. We move at your pace and keep grounding techniques to hand, and being in your own space often helps you feel more in control. If additional in-person support were ever needed, I'd help you find suitable local options alongside our work.
We begin with a free 15-minute consultation, usually within a week, then a first video session at a gentle pace. Working from Hove across Gateshead means no waiting list and no crossing the Tyne when you're feeling raw; the session simply comes to you.
You can; Queen Elizabeth Hospital Gateshead and NHS talking therapies are free, though often with a wait. My fees are £80 for 60 minutes, £100 for 90 and £120 for two hours. Longer sessions can suit trauma work, and privately you would start sooner and set the pace.
For many people, yes. Being in your own space in Gateshead, rather than an unfamiliar room across the river, can feel steadier. I work from Hove by secure video, and we can use 90-minute or evening sessions so there's time to settle and close gently.
A free fifteen-minute call is the simplest place to start, no obligation, just a chance to see if we are the right fit.
Also available online across Yorkshire & North East: Newcastle upon Tyne, Sunderland, Durham. See all of Yorkshire & North East.
Related work in Gateshead: anxiety counselling, addiction counselling and psychotherapy.
For anyone near the coast, the same trauma counselling runs in person in Hove, where the room is. Every area covered is listed separately.