Intrusive memories
Support for flashbacks, nightmares and re-experiencing.
Online Trauma Counselling · Durham
Online trauma counselling for Durham, by secure video. From a base in Hove I work with people across Durham, from the peninsula and the centre to the streets around the cathedral, with the same BACP-registered, confidential support as an in-person session, and no journey.

In and around Durham
Life in Durham
Trauma keeps its own timetable, and it does not care that Durham looks peaceful. It might be something that happened at eighteen, in a student house, never reported. It might be an accident, a bereavement that arrived without warning, or a childhood in one of the villages where nobody spoke about what went on indoors. Emergency hospital admissions for self-harm ran at 85.3 per 100,000 in 2023/24, below the England average of 117 - a hospital measure, not a measure of what is being held. The early signs are physical rather than narrative: a startle response, sleep that breaks, a flatness at odds with the life you appear to be living.
Areas covered
Wherever you are in Durham, the work is the same, a calm, confidential space shaped around you.
The local picture
Official figures for Durham, for context rather than as a description of you.
the rate of emergency hospital admissions for self-harm was 85.3 per 100,000 in 2023/24, below the England average of 117 per 100,000. Source: OHID Fingertips – Emergency Hospital Admissions for Intentional Self-Harm (2023/24).
Reviewed June 2026.
Trauma counselling here is gentle and led by you, drawing on methods designed for trauma including the Human Givens Rewind Technique, so a difficult memory is returned to ordinary recall.
What actually happens in the room is the same everywhere, so it is written up once: see the full trauma counselling page for the methods, session lengths and fees for fees and session lengths, and my BACP registration if you want to check who you would be working with.
Sessions run over a secure, encrypted video link, held to the same BACP confidentiality as meeting in person. After a free fifteen-minute call, you join from any private space on a phone, tablet or laptop.
There is no room here to come to; Bradley works from Hove and all Durham sessions run by secure video. For trauma work that is genuinely useful rather than a compromise. You stay in a space you control, with your own door, and when the hour ends you are already home instead of crossing town feeling exposed. Nothing about the pace is fixed in advance, and if a particular week is too much, we do something quieter with it.
Book a free 15-minute callWhat I help with
Support for flashbacks, nightmares and re-experiencing.
Help when your nervous system is stuck on high alert.
For when you cope by shutting down.
Healing the wound that drives the habit.
Reaching the quieter, accumulated hurts.
Working always at a pace that is led by you.
Trauma Counselling in Durham
The event does not have to be described. That is the sentence most people need before they will even enquire, so it goes first. Using the Human Givens Rewind Technique, the work addresses the alarm your nervous system fastened onto the memory rather than the story itself, while you stay calm, alert and in control throughout, and it does not require you to speak the content aloud. What we do talk about is the present: the sleep, the avoidance, the reaction that fires before you have thought anything, the way certain places or dates land. You set the speed and you can call a halt at any moment. Where anxiety or low mood is sitting on top, Durham and Darlington Talking Therapies takes NHS self-referrals for those without a GP appointment, and many people run the two alongside each other.
Not sure if it is right for you? A free fifteen-minute call is a no-obligation way to talk it through.
Book a free 15-minute callMy online counselling sits alongside the help available locally. In Durham, you can refer yourself directly to Durham and Darlington Talking Therapies for free NHS talking therapy, with no GP referral needed.
Private sessions with me usually mean you can start sooner and stay with the same counsellor throughout; I am glad to work alongside any NHS or GP support you already have.
Other local and national support verified for this area includes:
This is not a crisis service. If anyone is in immediate danger call 999. For urgent mental health support, call NHS 111 and choose the mental health option. The Samaritans are free, day or night, on 116 123, or text SHOUT to 85258.
Durham questions
No, and that is not a technicality. The Rewind Technique is built to work without a spoken account of the event, and I will not press for detail you have not offered. Most of our conversation is about the present-day effects rather than the history behind them.
It is a paced, non-invasive method for settling the alarm attached to a memory while you stay relaxed and in control from start to finish. You keep the memory; the intensity around it drops. It is often completed within a small number of sessions rather than continuing open-ended.
Route-changing is one of the clearest signs of an unresolved alarm response, and it is very common among people who stayed in Durham afterwards. Avoidance brings short relief and keeps the reaction alive. We work on the memory first, then on the places, at a pace you decide.
A free 15-minute consultation comes first, with no obligation to continue. Sessions are £80 / 60 min, £100 / 90 min and £120 / 120 min after that. Rewind work often uses the 90-minute session so there is room to settle properly at both ends of the hour.
For the anxiety, sleep problems and low mood that accompany trauma, Durham and Darlington Talking Therapies accepts NHS self-referrals with no GP step first. If you ever feel unsafe rather than distressed, a GP or NHS 111 is the right call on the day rather than waiting.
For many people, yes. Being in your own familiar space, with your own things around you, often makes it easier to feel safe and in control during difficult work. There's also no journey to and from an appointment to manage at either end.
We begin with a free 15-minute consultation, usually within a week, then a first video session at a careful pace. Working from Hove across Durham means no waiting list and no trip into the city when you're feeling vulnerable; the session simply comes to you.
You can; County Durham NHS talking therapies and hospital services are free, though often with a wait. My fees are £80 for 60 minutes, £100 for 90 and £120 for two hours. Longer sessions can suit trauma work, and privately you'd start sooner and choose the pace.
For many people, yes. Being in your own familiar space in Durham can feel steadier than an unfamiliar room after a trip into the city. I work from Hove by secure video, and we can use 90-minute or evening sessions so there's time to settle and close gently.
A free fifteen-minute call is the simplest place to start, no obligation, just a chance to see if we are the right fit.
Also available online across Yorkshire & North East: Newcastle upon Tyne, Sunderland, Darlington. See all of Yorkshire & North East.
Also available in Durham: anxiety counselling, addiction counselling and psychotherapy.
Closer to the Sussex coast? The same trauma counselling is available in person, in Hove, where the room is, or see every area I cover.