Communication and conflict
Breaking the cycle of the same argument.
Relationship Counselling · Hassocks
Relationship Counselling for Hassocks and the surrounding area, in person or online. Hassocks is a village at the foot of the Downs, beneath the Clayton windmills known as Jack and Jill. From my room in nearby Hove I offer a calm, confidential space to do this work.

In and around Hassocks
Hassocks is a Mid Sussex village beneath the Clayton 'Jack and Jill' windmills on the South Downs.
Life in Hassocks
Hassocks nestles at the foot of the Downs beneath the Clayton windmills, the pair known affectionately as Jack and Jill, with Adastra Park at its centre and the old village of Keymer merging into its eastern side. The steep scarp rises just to the south, carrying the railway through Clayton tunnel, and Ditchling Beacon stands within walking reach. It is a friendly commuter village with a strong sense of place, home to many who travel daily towards Brighton and London. That routine can be wearing, and personal struggles do not pause for the timetable. A confidential counselling room a short train ride away in Hove offers a private break from it all, with online sessions always an option.
Areas covered
Wherever you are in Hassocks, the work is the same, a calm, confidential space shaped around you.
Relationship counselling here, for couples or individuals, slows down the pattern you are caught in and builds healthier ways of hearing and being heard.
The approach is the same wherever you come from, so rather than repeat it on every page you can read it in full, the methods, what each session covers and fees, on the main relationship counselling page and on how I work.
Sessions take place in a private, comfortable room at Intergen House on Western Road in central Hove, held to the strict BACP confidentiality you would expect. We begin with a free fifteen-minute call to check we are a good fit, and the same sessions are available by secure video if travelling is difficult or you would simply prefer it.
From Hassocks a short train ride on the main line reaches Hove and Brighton in around fifteen minutes, or it is a fifteen to twenty minute drive south over the Downs on the A273 and A23. Hassocks Station is central to the village. There is parking near the room. Online video sessions are always available when travelling in is difficult.
Book a free 15-minute callWhat I help with
Breaking the cycle of the same argument.
Rebuilding safety after betrayal or addiction.
Finding your way back to closeness.
Sessions you can join from different places.
Working with people-pleasing and the need for control.
You do not need to come as a couple to change the dynamic.
Relationship Counselling in Hassocks
Hassocks is a friendly commuter village with a strong sense of place, home to many who travel daily towards Brighton and London, and that routine can wear on a relationship. Relationship counselling offers you and your partner a private break from it all, a calm hour to slow the recurring argument and find your way back. Come together or on your own, since one person can begin to shift a stuck pattern. The room is a short train ride away in Hove, around fifteen minutes, or a drive over the Downs, with online sessions there too when travelling is hard.
Not sure if it is right for you? A free fifteen-minute call is a no-obligation way to talk it through.
Book a free 15-minute callMy counselling sits alongside the help available locally. In Hassocks, you can refer yourself directly to NHS West Sussex Talking Therapies for free NHS talking therapy, with no GP referral needed.
Seeing me privately usually means you can start sooner and stay with the same counsellor throughout, working at greater depth and pace; the two can run side by side, and I am glad to work alongside any NHS or GP support you already have.
Other local and national support verified for this area includes:
This is not a crisis service. If anyone is in immediate danger call 999. For urgent mental health support, call NHS 111 and choose the mental health option. The Samaritans are free, day or night, on 116 123, or text SHOUT to 85258.
Hassocks questions
In a private room at Intergen House on Western Road in central Hove. From Hassocks a short train ride or a fifteen to twenty minute drive over the Downs brings you to Hove. Every service is also available by secure video across the UK, so you can meet from any private space in Hassocks or blend the two.
Yes. A great deal can change when one person shifts the pattern; you do not need to attend as a couple to do useful work.
Yes. Online makes it easy for couples in different places, or juggling childcare, to attend together.
No. We look at the pattern the two of you create together and where it gets stuck, not at who is to blame.
Yes. Trains on the main line reach Hove in around fifteen minutes from Hassocks Station, then a short walk to Western Road. Driving over the Downs takes a similar time. When the trip is inconvenient, online video sessions are just as private and effective, and you can mix the two.
Start with a free fifteen-minute call, then come over for your session. From Hassocks a short train on the main line reaches Hove and Brighton in around fifteen minutes, a short walk to Western Road, or it is a fifteen to twenty minute drive south over the Downs.
Sessions are £80 for sixty minutes, £100 for ninety and £120 for two hours, after a free fifteen-minute consultation. The NHS rarely funds couples work, so most Hassocks clients choose private sessions, valuing a quick train from the village and starting without a waiting list.
Yes. Couples can come to the Hove room, a short train ride away, or share a secure video call from home in the village. Individuals are welcome alone. Evening slots help around commuting and family, and you can mix the train in with online sessions to suit your week.
Yes. Trains on the main line reach Hove and Brighton in around fifteen minutes from Hassocks Station, with a short walk to Western Road afterwards. Driving over the Downs takes a similar time. When the trip is inconvenient, online video sessions are just as private and effective.
A free fifteen-minute call is the simplest place to start, no obligation, just a chance to see if we are the right fit.
Also available nearby: Ditchling, Burgess Hill, Patcham. See all areas I cover.
All counselling & therapy in Hassocks: Addiction · Substance Use · Drinking Problems · Anxiety · Depression · Trauma · Counselling & Therapy · Psychotherapy.
Prefer to meet remotely? The same relationship counselling is available online by secure video across the UK, or see online counselling by region.