Intrusive memories
Support for flashbacks, nightmares and re-experiencing.
Trauma Counselling · Hassocks
Trauma Counselling for Hassocks and the surrounding area, in person or online. Hassocks is a village at the foot of the Downs, beneath the Clayton windmills known as Jack and Jill. From my room in nearby Hove I offer a calm, confidential space to do this work.

In and around Hassocks
Life in Hassocks
Some people arrive in Hassocks partly to put distance between themselves and something that happened elsewhere. Others have lived here all along and carry something that occurred close by. Either way the pattern is familiar: sleep that will not hold, a startle response set far too high, and a strong instinct to keep the whole thing away from village life. Trauma also has a habit of surfacing later, when things are calm enough for the body to finally register what it went through. That is why a settled village and an unsettled nervous system so often turn up in the same person, several years after anything visible happened.
Areas covered
Wherever you are in Hassocks, the work is the same, a calm, confidential space shaped around you.
The local picture
Official figures for Hassocks, for context rather than as a description of you.
the rate of emergency hospital admissions for self-harm was 127.2 per 100,000 in 2023/24, above the England average of 117 per 100,000. Source: OHID Fingertips – Emergency Hospital Admissions for Intentional Self-Harm (2023/24).
Reviewed June 2026.
Trauma counselling here is gentle and led by you, drawing on methods designed for trauma including the Human Givens Rewind Technique, so a difficult memory is returned to ordinary recall.
The method travels; only the geography changes. everything on trauma counselling explains it properly, how I work, sessions and fees answers the practical questions, and professional standards and registration shows how the practice is held to account.
Sessions take place in a private, comfortable room at Intergen House on Western Road in central Hove, held to the strict BACP confidentiality you would expect. We begin with a free fifteen-minute call to check we are a good fit, and the same sessions are available by secure video if travelling is difficult or you would simply prefer it.
Trauma sessions are held in a private room in central Hove, reachable by a short train ride or a fifteen to twenty minute drive, and are equally available online by secure video. The choice is genuinely yours and it is worth thinking about the hour afterwards as much as the hour itself. Some people want a journey home to decompress in. Others want to close the laptop and put the kettle on. Both are entirely reasonable.
Book a free 15-minute callWhat I help with
Support for flashbacks, nightmares and re-experiencing.
Help when your nervous system is stuck on high alert.
For when you cope by shutting down.
Healing the wound that drives the habit.
Reaching the quieter, accumulated hurts.
Working always at a pace that is led by you.
Trauma Counselling in Hassocks
There is one thing most people want to know before anything else, so it goes first: this does not involve recounting the event. No detailed account, no pressure to disclose, no expectation that you talk your way through the worst of it. Work here uses the Human Givens Rewind Technique, which processes a memory without requiring it to be described aloud, and everything before that is preparation. We settle sleep, look at what triggers the response, and agree how to pause or stop. You hold the pace throughout and can change your mind at any point. For a free route, NHS West Sussex Talking Therapies takes self- referrals for trauma-related difficulties, and the Sussex Mental Healthline is answered day and night. The self-harm admission rate across West Sussex was 127.2 per 100,000 in 2023/24, set against 117 per 100,000 for England as a whole.
Not sure if it is right for you? A free fifteen-minute call is a no-obligation way to talk it through.
Book a free 15-minute callMy counselling sits alongside the help available locally. In Hassocks, you can refer yourself directly to NHS West Sussex Talking Therapies for free NHS talking therapy, with no GP referral needed.
Seeing me privately usually means you can start sooner and stay with the same counsellor throughout, working at greater depth and pace; the two can run side by side, and I am glad to work alongside any NHS or GP support you already have.
Other local and national support verified for this area includes:
This is not a crisis service. If anyone is in immediate danger call 999. For urgent mental health support, call NHS 111 and choose the mental health option. The Samaritans are free, day or night, on 116 123, or text SHOUT to 85258.
Hassocks questions
In a private room at Intergen House on Western Road in central Hove. From Hassocks a short train ride or a fifteen to twenty minute drive over the Downs brings you to Hove. Every service is also available by secure video across the UK, so you can meet from any private space in Hassocks or blend the two.
It works with the way the memory is held in the mind rather than with its content, so you can keep the details entirely to yourself. You stay awake, relaxed and in control throughout, and you can stop at any point. Most people find it far less daunting than expected.
The rates run £80 / 60 min, £100 / 90 min and £120 / 120 min. For this work the longer sessions are sometimes useful, giving space to settle before you travel back. The 15-minute consultation that comes first is free and puts you under no obligation.
It does, including trauma-focused therapies, and you can refer yourself without seeing a GP first. Waits move about through the year; emergency hospital admissions for self-harm in West Sussex were 127.2 per 100,000 in 2023/24 against 117 nationally. Registering there while starting privately covers both bases.
It can, provided you have a private room and an hour that will not be interrupted. Plenty of this work happens online. We would agree beforehand what you do after the session ends, because the twenty minutes afterwards matter as much when nobody is travelling.
Yes, and it is a common situation in a small place. Trigger points tied to particular locations respond well once the memory itself has been processed. We would also plan, at your pace, how you want to handle passing it while the work is still going on.
No. The Rewind Technique I often draw on is calm and non-intrusive, so you never have to relive or speak the detail aloud. We work entirely at your pace, in my Hove room fifteen minutes from Hassocks, or online, and you stay in control.
We start with a free fifteen-minute call, with no pressure to explain, then a first session. Trains from Hassocks Station reach Hove in around fifteen minutes, or driving over the Downs takes fifteen to twenty. If travelling feels too much, online video is always available.
Private sessions are £80 for sixty minutes, £100 for ninety and £120 for two hours, after a free consultation. You can self-refer to free NHS Talking Therapies for West Sussex; waits vary, and seeing me privately means gentle, sooner trauma work at a pace you control.
Many value the containment of the room for trauma work, though some feel safer on video at home; both suit the gentle Rewind Technique. The quick train makes either straightforward. You lead the pace, with evening and weekend slots to fit around work.
A free fifteen-minute call is the simplest place to start, no obligation, just a chance to see if we are the right fit.
Also available nearby: Ditchling, Burgess Hill, Patcham. See all areas I cover.
Close to this in Hassocks, there is anxiety counselling, addiction counselling and psychotherapy.
Prefer to meet remotely? The same trauma counselling is available online by secure video across the UK, or see online counselling by region.