Communication and conflict
Breaking the cycle of the same argument.
Online Relationship Counselling · Stirling
Online relationship counselling for Stirling, by secure video. From a base in Hove I work with people across Stirling, from the old town and the castle to the streets around the Wallace Monument, with the same BACP-registered, confidential support as an in-person session, and no journey.

In and around Stirling
Life in Stirling
Stirling is a historic city between Glasgow and Edinburgh with a sizeable university and striking contrasts of wealth and hardship in its neighbourhoods. Student pressure, the cost of living and the squeeze of central-belt commuting all shape the pressures people here carry.
Stirling stands where the Lowlands meet the Highlands, guarding the old crossing of the Forth with its castle high on a crag. Below it the Wallace Monument rises across the valley, and the battlefields of Stirling Bridge and Bannockburn recall the city's place at the heart of Scottish history. Today it is a compact university city, with students from the campus by Airthrey Loch mixing with families in Bannockburn and the well-heeled villas of Bridge of Allan. Yet the contrasts are sharp: neighbourhoods like Raploch have known real hardship close to streets of clear comfort. Sitting in the busy central belt, many here juggle commutes to Glasgow or Edinburgh with the cost of keeping a household going.
Beneath a calm, historic surface, struggle can be hard to voice; a confidential online hour asks nothing of appearances.
Stirling is home to the University of Stirling and its landmark castle, and sits within the NHS Forth Valley health board area between Glasgow and Edinburgh.
Areas covered
Wherever you are in Stirling, the work is the same, a calm, confidential space shaped around you.
Relationship counselling here, for couples or individuals, slows down the pattern you are caught in and builds healthier ways of hearing and being heard.
The approach is the same wherever you live, so rather than repeat it on every page you can read it in full, the methods, what each session covers and fees, on the main relationship counselling page and on how I work.
Sessions run over a secure, encrypted video link held to the same strict BACP confidentiality as meeting in person. After a free fifteen-minute call to check we are a good fit, you join each session from any private space using a phone, tablet or laptop, no software to install, no waiting room and no journey at either end.
Stirling has university and NHS support, but talking therapy through NHS Forth Valley can carry a wait, and a small city doesn't always feel private when you might know people at the local service. Secure video sessions reach any home in and around Stirling without that concern. I work from Hove on the English south coast, seeing clients across Scotland and the UK online.
Book a free 15-minute callWhat I help with
Breaking the cycle of the same argument.
Rebuilding safety after betrayal or addiction.
Finding your way back to closeness.
Sessions you can join from different places.
Working with people-pleasing and the need for control.
You do not need to come as a couple to change the dynamic.
Relationship Counselling in Stirling
Stirling sits at the crossroads of the central belt, and many couples here spend their days commuting out to Glasgow or Edinburgh, returning too tired to do much more than manage the household. Add the cost of keeping a home going and the sharp contrasts of a city where comfort and hardship sit close together, and a relationship can quietly slip down the list. Relationship counselling gives you both a protected hour to reconnect. Meeting by secure video, you can join from home in Bridge of Allan, Bannockburn or the old town, without adding another journey to days already spent on the road.
Not sure if it is right for you? A free fifteen-minute call is a no-obligation way to talk it through.
Book a free 15-minute callMy online counselling sits alongside the help available locally. In Stirling, your GP can refer you to NHS psychological therapies, and you can find trusted self-help through NHS inform. You can find support through NHS inform; for confidential listening support, Breathing Space is free on 0800 83 85 87.
Private sessions with me usually mean you can start sooner and stay with the same counsellor throughout; I am glad to work alongside any NHS or GP support you already have.
Other local and national support verified for this area includes:
This is not a crisis service. If anyone is in immediate danger call 999. For urgent mental health support, call NHS 24 on 111 for urgent mental health support. Breathing Space is free on 0800 83 85 87, and the Samaritans are on 116 123.
Stirling questions
Yes. I work with people right across Stirling, from the old town and the castle outwards, and anywhere else in Scotland, by secure video, no need to travel to Hove, and just as confidential as meeting in the room.
Yes. A great deal can change when one person shifts the pattern; you do not need to attend as a couple to do useful work.
Yes. Online makes it easy for couples in different places, or juggling childcare, to attend together.
No. We look at the pattern the two of you create together and where it gets stuck, not at who is to blame.
Yes. Because we meet by secure video, we can find a time that works around your travel, including evenings from home. There is no appointment to reach across town, which makes keeping a shared slot far easier when your days already go on the commute.
Usually within a week or two. We begin with a free 15-minute consultation, then book a first session that suits you both. Everything is by secure video across Stirling and its villages, so there is no waiting list and no local room to be seen going into.
Sessions are £80 for an hour, £100 for 90 minutes and £120 for two hours, after a free 15-minute consultation. NHS Forth Valley rarely offers dedicated couples work and waits can be long, so many Stirling couples choose private online sessions to start sooner and more privately.
Yes. There is no local waiting room to sit in and no one to pass on the street, since sessions run by secure video from home. Evening slots suit central-belt commuters, and if one of you is in Glasgow or Edinburgh, you can join from two places.
That's a common worry in a smaller city, and it's one reason online work suits many people here. There's no local waiting room to sit in and no one to pass on the street. Sessions happen privately by secure video from your own home.
I'm based in Hove on the south coast of England and work with people throughout Scotland and the UK by video. I don't have a room in Stirling, so our sessions would be online, private, and with nothing to travel to.
A free fifteen-minute call is the simplest place to start, no obligation, just a chance to see if we are the right fit.
Also available online across Scotland: Falkirk, Perth, Glasgow. See all of Scotland.
All counselling & therapy in Stirling: Addiction · Substance Use · Drinking Problems · Anxiety · Depression · Trauma · Counselling & Therapy · Psychotherapy.
Closer to the Sussex coast? The same relationship counselling is available in person in Brighton & Hove, or see all in-person areas.