Communication and conflict
Breaking the cycle of the same argument.
Online Relationship Counselling · Glasgow
Online relationship counselling for Glasgow, by secure video. From a base in Hove I work with people across Glasgow, from the city centre and the West End to the streets around the Clyde, with the same BACP-registered, confidential support as an in-person session, and no journey.

In and around Glasgow
Life in Glasgow
Glasgow is a warm city with a hard undertow. There is real generosity in it, and there is also a culture of coping that can make asking for help feel like letting the side down. Couples in Dennistoun, Shawlands and Partick describe the same modern squeeze: two jobs, a flat that costs too much, and no time at all in which to be a couple rather than a household. Behind that sits the city's long inheritance of insecure work and health inequality, which nobody mentions during an argument and everybody feels. A relationship under that much steady pressure does not usually explode. It gets quieter, year by year.
Areas covered
Wherever you are in Glasgow, the work is the same, a calm, confidential space shaped around you.
The local picture
Official figures for Glasgow, for context rather than as a description of you.
In Glasgow City, 12.0% of adults reported a low happiness score (4 or below out of 10) in the year ending March 2023, compared with a Scotland average of 9.1%, a difference the survey's margin of error does not confirm. Source: Office for National Statistics (ONS), Personal well-being estimates by local authority (Year ending March 2023 (2022-23)).
In Glasgow City, 24.1% of adults reported a high anxiety score (6 or above out of 10) in the year ending March 2023, in line with the Scotland average of 24.1%. Source: Office for National Statistics (ONS), Personal well-being estimates by local authority (Year ending March 2023 (2022-23)).
In Glasgow City, 7.7% of adults reported a low life satisfaction score (4 or below out of 10) in the year ending March 2023, compared with a Scotland average of 6.1%, a difference the survey's margin of error does not confirm. Source: Office for National Statistics (ONS), Personal well-being estimates by local authority (Year ending March 2023 (2022-23)).
Reviewed June 2026.
Relationship counselling here, for couples or individuals, slows down the pattern you are caught in and builds healthier ways of hearing and being heard.
What actually happens in the room is the same everywhere, so it is written up once: see the full relationship counselling page for the methods, how I work for fees and session lengths, and professional standards and registration if you want to check who you would be working with.
Sessions run over a secure, encrypted video link, held to the same BACP confidentiality as meeting in person. After a free fifteen-minute call, you join from any private space on a phone, tablet or laptop.
There is no room in Glasgow. Bradley works from Hove and couples here meet him by secure video, which in a city this size is more practical than it sounds. Nobody crosses town in traffic to make a six o'clock appointment. You can sit together in your own living room once the flat is quiet, or join separately when one of you is working late or staying elsewhere for a while. There is no reception area either, which matters when privacy is the worry.
Book a free 15-minute callWhat I help with
Breaking the cycle of the same argument.
Rebuilding safety after betrayal or addiction.
Finding your way back to closeness.
Sessions you can join from different places.
Working with people-pleasing and the need for control.
You do not need to come as a couple to change the dynamic.
Relationship Counselling in Glasgow
People come for the whole range: an affair, a slow loss of interest, constant low-level arguing, a decision about whether to stay. In this city drink is frequently a third party in the room, and where one person's drinking has become the thing nobody can raise, a relationship organises itself around it without anyone ever deciding to. Relationship work looks at what that has done between you: the walking on eggshells, the broken promises, the careful management of somebody else's evening. It also looks at plainer things, like how the two of you speak when tired and what happens to an apology. Attending as a couple is not a requirement, and one person alone can shift a surprising amount. Glasgow Alcohol and Drug Recovery Services (GADRS) is there if drink or drugs need addressing directly, while a GP referral opens NHS psychological therapies, with NHS inform for self-help and Breathing Space free on 0800 83 85 87.
Not sure if it is right for you? A free fifteen-minute call is a no-obligation way to talk it through.
Book a free 15-minute callMy online counselling sits alongside the help available locally. In Glasgow, your GP can refer you to NHS psychological therapies, and you can find trusted self-help through NHS inform. You can find support through NHS inform; for confidential listening support, Breathing Space is free on 0800 83 85 87.
Private sessions with me usually mean you can start sooner and stay with the same counsellor throughout; I am glad to work alongside any NHS or GP support you already have.
Other local and national support verified for this area includes:
This is not a crisis service. If anyone is in immediate danger call 999. For urgent mental health support, call NHS 24 on 111 for urgent mental health support. Breathing Space is free on 0800 83 85 87, the Samaritans are on 116 123, and you can text SHOUT to 85258.
Glasgow questions
Yes, and it is a common way to start in this city. Working on your own half of the pattern changes the dynamic between you more than people expect. It also gives you a clearer head about what you want. Nothing you say gets passed on, and he can join later if he chooses to.
One session is one fee no matter how many of you attend: £80 for an hour, £100 for ninety minutes, £120 for two. Ninety minutes tends to suit couples, since two people rarely fit their side of things into half an hour each. A free 15-minute call comes first, before either of you commits.
Your GP can refer you to NHS psychological therapies, which is the Scottish route rather than any self-referral service. NHS inform carries self-help worth reading while a referral is processed, and Breathing Space is free on 0800 83 85 87 in the evenings and overnight. Private sessions can run alongside that referral without difficulty.
It can work with you on what is actually happening between the two of you, which stays within reach even when she is not ready. For her, Glasgow Alcohol and Drug Recovery Services (GADRS) and the alcohol counselling at Glasgow Council on Alcohol, now Murray's Initiative, are options in the city.
Headphones make more difference than anything else, since only your side of it is audible in the room. A bedroom with the door closed is usually sufficient. If the flat is crowded, some people take the session in a parked car, which is private, warm enough and surprisingly common.
It often does. Part of the work is making it easier to say things that are hard to put into words, at a pace that suits you both. You don't need to arrive fluent; you just need to be willing to try, together, over video.
Usually within a week or two. We begin with a free 15-minute consultation, then book your first session at a time that suits you both. Everything is by secure video across Glasgow, from the West End to the Southside, so there is no waiting list and no journey across the city.
Sessions are £80 for an hour, £100 for 90 minutes and £120 for two hours, with a free 15-minute consultation first. NHS Greater Glasgow and Clyde rarely provides dedicated couples work and demand is high, so many Glasgow couples turn to private online sessions to be seen sooner.
Yes. Because sessions run by secure video, the two of you can join from one room in Shawlands or Partick, or from two different locations entirely. Evening slots are available too, which helps Glasgow couples juggling shifts and long working days stay in the same conversation.
A free fifteen-minute call is the simplest place to start, no obligation, just a chance to see if we are the right fit.
Also available online across Scotland: Paisley, East Kilbride, Falkirk. See all of Scotland.
Also available in Glasgow: counselling and therapy, trauma counselling and addiction counselling.
There is more on this in my writing: the Imago dialogue for couples.
Closer to the Sussex coast? The same relationship counselling is available in person, in Brighton, or see every area I cover.