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Online Relationship Counselling · Lincoln
Online Relationship Counselling in Lincoln
Online relationship counselling for Lincoln, by secure video. From a base in Hove I work with people across Lincoln, from the historic Bailgate and the cathedral to the streets around the castle, with the same BACP-registered, confidential support as an in-person session, and no journey.
BACP registered member25+ years of experienceLived experience
ConfidentialA safe, private space
Person-centredThe therapy fits you
In and around Lincoln
Relationship Counselling for Lincoln, at a glance
- Areas covered online
- All of Lincoln: from the historic Bailgate and the cathedral to Ermine, St Giles and the city centre below the hill
- Known for
- The cathedral, the castle and Steep Hill
- Region
- Midlands (England)
- Local NHS / support route
- Lincolnshire Talking Therapies (steps2change)
- Format
- Secure video, UK-wide. In-person also available on the Sussex coast.
Life in Lincoln
Why people in Lincoln reach out
Lincoln is a striking cathedral and university city set in a large, flat and largely rural county, and that rural isolation means specialist help can be a long way off. A growing student population, low rural wages and the distance from bigger centres all shape what people carry.
Lincoln is a striking city where a great medieval cathedral and castle crown Steep Hill, with the Bailgate above and the modern Brayford waterfront and University of Lincoln below. It is a place of contrasts, the historic 'uphill' and the busier 'downhill', set in a large, flat and largely rural county. Engineering runs deep here, from Lincoln's turbine works to the RAF stations that give Bomber County its name, and a growing student population has changed the feel of the centre. Rural isolation means specialist help can be a long drive off. When low wages, distance or loneliness press on someone, a confidential space to talk can bridge that gap.
Beneath a calm, historic surface, struggle can be hard to voice; a confidential online hour asks nothing of appearances.
Lincoln is home to the University of Lincoln and Lincoln County Hospital, and Siemens Energy manufactures industrial gas turbines in the city, a major local employer.
Areas covered
Neighbourhoods in and around Lincoln
BailgateErmineSt GilesUphillBracebridgeBoulthamBirchwoodHartsholmeMonks RoadCarholme
Wherever you are in Lincoln, the work is the same, a calm, confidential space shaped around you.
The relationship counselling itself
Relationship counselling here, for couples or individuals, slows down the pattern you are caught in and builds healthier ways of hearing and being heard.
The approach is the same wherever you live, so rather than repeat it on every page you can read it in full, the methods, what each session covers and fees, on the main relationship counselling page and on how I work.
How online sessions work
Sessions run over a secure, encrypted video link held to the same strict BACP confidentiality as meeting in person. After a free fifteen-minute call to check we are a good fit, you join each session from any private space using a phone, tablet or laptop, no software to install, no waiting room and no journey at either end.
Lincoln's railway links are steadier than fast, with services to Newark, Nottingham, Sheffield and a direct line to London taking a good while, and the surrounding county is spread out and rural, so many journeys are long ones by road. That is exactly where online counselling helps. The room is in Hove and Lincoln is served by video, so you can meet from a private space at home rather than travelling across the county for an appointment.
Book a free 15-minute callWhat I help with
How online relationship counselling in Lincoln can help
Trust and repair
Rebuilding safety after betrayal or addiction.
Distance
Finding your way back to closeness.
Long-distance couples
Sessions you can join from different places.
Anxiety and reassurance
Working with people-pleasing and the need for control.
Individual work
You do not need to come as a couple to change the dynamic.
Relationship Counselling in Lincoln
Why people in Lincoln come for relationship counselling
For couples in and around Lincoln, the distance of a large, rural county can quietly shape a relationship, with long drives, low wages and a sense of isolation all adding their weight. Reaching support together has often meant a journey across the county for one appointment. Relationship counselling offers a confidential hour to reconnect and be heard, wherever you live. Sessions are held online from a room in Hove, so whether you are up in the Bailgate, down by the Brayford or out in a village, you and your partner can meet together from home, with distance no longer standing in the way.
A free, unhurried first step
Not sure if it is right for you? A free fifteen-minute call is a no-obligation way to talk it through.
Book a free 15-minute callFinding support in Lincoln
My online counselling sits alongside the help available locally. In Lincoln, you can refer yourself directly to Lincolnshire Talking Therapies (steps2change) for free NHS talking therapy, with no GP referral needed.
Private sessions with me usually mean you can start sooner and stay with the same counsellor throughout; I am glad to work alongside any NHS or GP support you already have.
Other local and national support verified for this area includes:
If you need urgent help now
This is not a crisis service. If anyone is in immediate danger call 999. For urgent mental health support, call NHS 111 and choose the mental health option. The Samaritans are free, day or night, on 116 123, or text SHOUT to 85258.
Lincoln questions
Online Relationship Counselling in Lincoln: common questions
Can I get online relationship counselling if I live in Lincoln?
Yes. I work with people right across Lincoln, from the historic Bailgate and the cathedral outwards, and anywhere else in Midlands, by secure video, no need to travel to Hove, and just as confidential as meeting in the room.
Can I come on my own, without my partner?
Yes. A great deal can change when one person shifts the pattern; you do not need to attend as a couple to do useful work.
Can we join the session from different locations?
Yes. Online makes it easy for couples in different places, or juggling childcare, to attend together.
Will you take sides?
No. We look at the pattern the two of you create together and where it gets stuck, not at who is to blame.
We live out in the county, can we still attend together?
Yes. One of the advantages of online counselling is that distance stops mattering. Whether you are in the city or out in a village across Lincolnshire, you and your partner can meet by video together from home, with no long drive in, just a private space and a connection.
How soon can we start online relationship counselling in Lincoln?
Online relationship counselling in Lincoln has no waiting list. We start with a free 15-minute consultation, and once you and your partner agree a weekly time, sessions can begin soon after. From Bailgate to Uphill or Birchwood, the work is arranged entirely by video.
What does relationship counselling cost in Lincoln, and is it available on the NHS?
Lincoln couples can self-refer free to NHS Talking Therapies, though a wait is common. My private fees are 80 pounds for an hour, 100 for 90 minutes and 120 for two hours, after a free 15-minute consultation. Many couples go private to be seen sooner.
Can my partner and I join from different places in Lincoln, and are evening sessions available?
With Lincoln's rural county meaning long journeys, online spares the travel. Partners can join from separate places, one in Ermine and one from work, and evening slots outside standard hours are often available for couples in and around the city.
I live out in the county, well away from Lincoln, can you still help?
Yes. One of the advantages of online counselling is that distance stops mattering. Whether you are in the city or out in a village across Lincolnshire, you can meet by video from home, with no long drive in, just a private space and a connection.
Online Relationship Counselling in Lincoln, whenever you are ready
A free fifteen-minute call is the simplest place to start, no obligation, just a chance to see if we are the right fit.
Also available online across Midlands: Nottingham, Peterborough. See all of Midlands.
All counselling & therapy in Lincoln: Addiction · Substance Use · Drinking Problems · Anxiety · Depression · Trauma · Counselling & Therapy · Psychotherapy.
Closer to the Sussex coast? The same relationship counselling is available in person in Brighton & Hove, or see all in-person areas.