Communication and conflict
Breaking the cycle of the same argument.
Online Relationship Counselling · Edinburgh
Online relationship counselling for Edinburgh, by secure video, wherever you are. The hardest part is often just starting. Online relationship counselling keeps that first step small for people in Edinburgh: a private hour from your own space, with no journey and nobody to bump into.
From the heart of Edinburgh, near the castle, Arthur's Seat and the Royal Mile, out to its edges, from the Old Town and New Town to Leith, Morningside and Portobello, online sessions make it possible to get the right support without rearranging your whole day around a single appointment.
Although my practice sits on the Sussex coast in Hove, distance is no obstacle. People in Edinburgh work with me online and receive exactly the same specialist, confidential support as anyone who walks through the door.
I also work online with people elsewhere in Scotland, including Glasgow, Dunfermline, Falkirk.
If you would still prefer to meet in person and can travel to the Sussex coast, you are welcome to, but for most clients in Edinburgh online relationship counselling is the natural and effective choice.
Life in Edinburgh
Edinburgh balances a historic capital with a high-pressure professional, financial and festival life, and behind the elegant facades sit some of the highest living costs in Scotland. The intensity of work, study and the city's seasonal crowds can make it hard to find space for yourself.
London's scale and speed can be exhilarating and exhausting at once, and time and privacy are always in short supply. An hour that comes to you, rather than one you have to cross the capital for, is often what makes therapy possible.
What I help with
Breaking the cycle of the same argument.
Rebuilding safety after betrayal or addiction.
Finding your way back to closeness.
Sessions you can join from different places.
Working with people-pleasing and the need for control.
You do not need to come as a couple to change the dynamic.
Why online works in Edinburgh
Sessions flex around the academic calendar and shift work, so support holds steady through the busiest weeks.
From Edinburgh, there's no journey across town and no waiting room. You join from wherever feels safe, and the rest of your day simply carries on around the session.
Working online means people in Edinburgh aren't limited to whoever practises locally. You can choose the counsellor who genuinely fits the issue you're facing, not just the nearest one.
A weekly session you can take from home is far simpler to protect than one that needs travel. That consistency is exactly where lasting change comes from.
Beyond the practicalities, this is the heart of how the work goes. My approach is integrative and person-centred. We are not looking for someone to blame, but at the system the two of you create together and where it gets stuck, drawing on relational therapy, Internal Family Systems and Human Givens approaches.
The setup is light: somewhere quiet, a phone, tablet or laptop, and a workable connection. We open with a free fifteen-minute call, and after that each session is a secure link you click when the time comes.
Read more about online counselling, about relationship counselling, or about my methods, sessions and fees.
Start the conversationMy online counselling sits alongside the help available locally, and it can be worth knowing what else is there. In Edinburgh, your GP can refer you to NHS psychological therapies, and you can find trusted self-help through NHS inform. You can find support through NHS inform; for confidential listening support, Breathing Space is free on 0800 83 85 87.
Private sessions with me usually mean you can start sooner, stay with the same counsellor throughout, and work at greater depth and pace; the two can run side by side, and I'm glad to work alongside any NHS or GP support you already have.
This practice is not a crisis service. If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 999.
For urgent mental health support, call NHS 24 on 111 for urgent mental health support. Breathing Space is free on 0800 83 85 87, and the Samaritans are on 116 123.
Edinburgh questions
Absolutely. Edinburgh is well within reach, because we meet by secure video rather than in person. You'll get exactly the same specialist support as someone sitting in my Hove room.
Very little: a private space where you won't be interrupted, a laptop, tablet or phone, and a reasonable internet connection. After a free fifteen-minute call, I send a secure link you click at our agreed time.
Online and in-person therapy are similarly effective for most people, and clients usually settle quickly once the screen fades into the background and the conversation takes over.
Yes. Sessions run on a secure, encrypted video link, and everything we discuss is held to the same strict BACP confidentiality as work done in person. All you need at your end is a private space.
Take the first step with a free fifteen-minute call. Whether you're in Edinburgh or further afield, it's a relaxed, no-pressure way to find out whether we click.
Prefer to meet face to face? See counselling across Brighton, Hove & Sussex, or read more about how online counselling works and about relationship counselling in depth.