Persistent low mood
Support for ongoing sadness and emotional heaviness.
Online Depression Counselling · Durham
Online depression counselling for Durham, by secure video. From a base in Hove I work with people across Durham, from the peninsula and the centre to the streets around the cathedral, with the same BACP-registered, confidential support as an in-person session, and no journey.

In and around Durham
Life in Durham
There is a quiet in Durham that suits low mood far too well. Around the cathedral and the older streets a person can go a long time without being asked anything, and out in the villages shaped by the county's coal-mining heritage the expectation is often to say nothing anyway. Recorded depression on GP registers stood at 16.7% of adults in 2024/25, notably above the England average of 14.3%. The daily version of that number is small and grinding: the reading you cannot start, the friends in Elvet or Crossgate you stop replying to, mornings that begin already used up, and a slow forgetting of what you used to enjoy before the year turned like this.
Areas covered
Wherever you are in Durham, the work is the same, a calm, confidential space shaped around you.
The local picture
Official figures for Durham, for context rather than as a description of you.
recorded depression on GP registers stood at 16.7% of patients aged 18+ in 2024/25, above the England average of 14.3%. Source: OHID Fingertips – Depression: QOF prevalence (2024/25).
Reviewed June 2026.
Depression counselling here is steady and structured: we focus on the low mood, lost motivation and disconnection affecting you now, and on rebuilding the energy, routine and self-worth that hold a day together.
Because the work itself is the same wherever you live, the detail sits in one place rather than all of them: the depression counselling page sets out the methods, how I work covers the practicalities, and my credentials and registration covers accountability.
Sessions run over a secure, encrypted video link, held to the same BACP confidentiality as meeting in person. After a free fifteen-minute call, you join from any private space on a phone, tablet or laptop.
Because everything is delivered by secure video from Hove, a heavy morning does not become a missed appointment. There is nowhere in Durham to travel to, which on the worst days is the difference between attending and giving up on the idea. We hold one regular hour so the week has a fixed point in it. Students keep theirs across terms, and anyone steadying can move to fortnightly without losing continuity.
Book a free 15-minute callWhat I help with
Support for ongoing sadness and emotional heaviness.
Help with drive, focus and finishing tasks.
Support for withdrawal and feeling numb.
Rebuilding the rhythms that hold a day together.
Gently challenging a harsh inner voice.
Finding your way back to the parts of life that feel distant.
Depression Counselling in Durham
The work is structured on purpose, because depression takes structure away first. We begin with an honest look at the current shape of a week - sleep, food, daylight, movement, human contact - and rebuild the pieces one at a time, sized for a bad day rather than a hopeful one. Action first, motivation afterwards. That order sounds backwards and it is the single most useful thing to know about low mood. Alongside the rebuilding we look at what the depression grew from: a course that stopped meaning anything, a bereavement in a family that does not discuss them, redundancy, isolation after moving here. Durham and Darlington Talking Therapies provides the NHS route and takes self-referrals directly, without a GP letter. Using an NHS course and private sessions in parallel is common and causes no difficulty.
Not sure if it is right for you? A free fifteen-minute call is a no-obligation way to talk it through.
Book a free 15-minute callMy online counselling sits alongside the help available locally. In Durham, you can refer yourself directly to Durham and Darlington Talking Therapies for free NHS talking therapy, with no GP referral needed.
Private sessions with me usually mean you can start sooner and stay with the same counsellor throughout; I am glad to work alongside any NHS or GP support you already have.
Other local and national support verified for this area includes:
This is not a crisis service. If anyone is in immediate danger call 999. For urgent mental health support, call NHS 111 and choose the mental health option. The Samaritans are free, day or night, on 116 123, or text SHOUT to 85258.
Durham questions
Durham and Darlington Talking Therapies covers the area and you refer yourself, which avoids waiting for a GP appointment just to be pointed onwards. A GP is still the right person if you want to discuss medication, or if your physical health has slipped along with your mood.
Withdrawing is one of the earliest signs of low mood and it snowballs through shame rather than laziness. We work on getting one reliable thing back before touching the rest. Your college and the university will also have their own routes, and using them is not an admission of failure.
Sessions are £80 / 60 min, £100 / 90 min and £120 / 120 min, following a free 15-minute consultation. You pay individually rather than in blocks, so stopping needs no notice and no explanation. Depression work usually starts weekly and eases to fortnightly as things lift.
Not for the sessions, since they arrive wherever you are. It often changes the content. Distance from services, fewer local options and a strong tradition of not making a fuss shape how long people wait before asking, and that waiting is usually worth talking about early on.
No. Advice like that assumes a level of capacity that depression has already taken away. We work with what you can genuinely reach this week, which might be a short walk or might be answering one message, and grow it from there rather than starting with someone else's healthy routine.
Not at all, and it's more common than you'd think. A beautiful, prestigious place doesn't protect anyone from low mood, and the sense that it should can add guilt on top. Counselling gives the heaviness somewhere to go, without judgement, from your own space.
Often within a week of your free 15-minute call. When you're low, avoiding a journey into the city helps; you join by secure video from home in Gilesgate or out in the county villages. I work from Hove across Durham and we'd hold one regular weekly time.
NHS talking therapies in Durham are free and worth using; the usual trade-off is a wait and less flexibility. I charge £80 for 60 minutes, £100 for 90 and £120 for two hours, after a free consultation, and can usually start sooner with a consistent slot.
Online suits many people, especially out in the former pit villages where appointments mean a journey. Meeting by secure video from home removes that. I'm in Hove, not Durham, and can offer evening times so a session doesn't add to a heavy day.
A free fifteen-minute call is the simplest place to start, no obligation, just a chance to see if we are the right fit.
Also available online across Yorkshire & North East: Newcastle upon Tyne, Sunderland, Darlington. See all of Yorkshire & North East.
Related work in Durham: anxiety counselling, counselling and therapy and psychotherapy.
There is more on this in my writing: small repeated steps and a solution-focused exercise.
For anyone near the coast, the same depression counselling runs in person in Hove, where the room is. Every area covered is listed separately.