Recurring patterns
When the same difficulty keeps returning in different forms.
Online Psychotherapy · Aberdeen
Online psychotherapy for Aberdeen, by secure video. From a base in Hove I work with people across Aberdeen, from the granite centre and the harbour to the streets around the granite architecture, with the same BACP-registered, confidential support as an in-person session, and no journey.

In and around Aberdeen
Life in Aberdeen
There is a particular Aberdeen story: someone who did a short piece of counselling once, found it genuinely useful, and then watched the same thing come back a year later. The rota changed. The relationship ended the way the last one ended. The drinking crept back over a quiet winter. Careers built around the North Sea oil and gas industry can hold a person in a long loop of leaving and returning, and that rhythm has a way of echoing something much older. People who grew up in Kincorth or Mannofield and stayed, and people who came for a job at Robert Gordon University and never left, arrive asking the same question: why does this keep happening?
Areas covered
Wherever you are in Aberdeen, the work is the same, a calm, confidential space shaped around you.
The local picture
Official figures for Aberdeen, for context rather than as a description of you.
In Aberdeen City, 8.9% of adults reported a low happiness score (4 or below out of 10) in the year ending March 2023, in line with the Scotland average of 9.1%. Source: Office for National Statistics (ONS), Personal well-being estimates by local authority (Year ending March 2023 (2022-23)).
In Aberdeen City, 26.9% of adults reported a high anxiety score (6 or above out of 10) in the year ending March 2023, in line with the Scotland average of 24.1%. Source: Office for National Statistics (ONS), Personal well-being estimates by local authority (Year ending March 2023 (2022-23)).
In Aberdeen City, 5.0% of adults reported a low life satisfaction score (4 or below out of 10) in the year ending March 2023, compared with a Scotland average of 6.1%, a difference the survey's margin of error does not confirm. Source: Office for National Statistics (ONS), Personal well-being estimates by local authority (Year ending March 2023 (2022-23)).
Reviewed June 2026.
Psychotherapy here goes a little deeper and usually a little longer than counselling, into the patterns, beliefs and early relationships that shape how you feel now, so change is understood at the root and holds.
Rather than say the same thing on every page, the substance lives on the psychotherapy page, with session lengths and fees for the practical questions and professional standards and registration for registration and ethics.
Sessions run over a secure, encrypted video link, held to the same BACP confidentiality as meeting in person. After a free fifteen-minute call, you join from any private space on a phone, tablet or laptop.
Longer work needs continuity, and online is what makes continuity possible from this part of Scotland. Bradley is in Hove and there is no room here, so the same secure video slot simply holds, week after week, through a house move, a change of employer, a hard winter down at Aberdeen harbour. Nothing depends on a road, a train or a car park in the dark. When work takes you elsewhere, the hour travels with you.
Book a free 15-minute callWhat I help with
When the same difficulty keeps returning in different forms.
How early bonds still shape the way you connect now.
Working with a harsh inner voice and a shaky sense of self.
When something unresolved keeps replaying beneath the surface.
Understanding the root, not just quieting the symptom.
Insight that holds, so change does not slip back.
Psychotherapy in Aberdeen
Psychotherapy is the deeper end of this work and it takes longer. It is for someone who already knows the story of the last six months and wants to understand why it is also the story of the last twenty years. We look at early relationships, at what you learned to expect from people who were meant to be reliable, and at the shape that has given your adult attachments. Shame usually turns up somewhere in it. So does the belief, formed early and rarely tested, that you are only tolerable while you are useful. This is open-ended work, often a year or more, and it is not the right first step in a crisis. If you are in crisis now, Breathing Space is free on 0800 83 85 87, your GP can refer you to NHS psychological therapies, and NHS inform sets out what else exists. This is what you choose when the shorter attempts keep running out.
Not sure if it is right for you? A free fifteen-minute call is a no-obligation way to talk it through.
Book a free 15-minute callMy online counselling sits alongside the help available locally. In Aberdeen, your GP can refer you to NHS psychological therapies, and you can find trusted self-help through NHS inform. You can find support through NHS inform; for confidential listening support, Breathing Space is free on 0800 83 85 87.
Private sessions with me usually mean you can start sooner and stay with the same counsellor throughout; I am glad to work alongside any NHS or GP support you already have.
Other local and national support verified for this area includes:
This is not a crisis service. If anyone is in immediate danger call 999. For urgent mental health support, call NHS 24 on 111 for urgent mental health support. Breathing Space is free on 0800 83 85 87, the Samaritans are on 116 123, and you can text SHOUT to 85258.
Aberdeen questions
Counselling works on the present and finishes when the present is steadier. Psychotherapy keeps going into what set the pattern up: family, early attachment, the beliefs about yourself you have never really tested. It is slower on purpose. It is usually chosen by someone who has already had a shorter piece of work that helped and then wore off.
Longer than most people expect. A year is common and two is not unusual, at one session a week. No contract holds you and you can stop whenever you choose, but the useful material tends to surface once the work has become familiar, rather than in the first month of it.
One hour a week at £80 is the usual pattern. Some people take 90 minutes at £100 while working on something heavy, and 120 minutes at £120 exists for occasional longer sittings. The free 15-minute consultation comes first, before any of that is settled. You pay as you go, and breaks for holidays or a rota are entirely normal.
NHS psychological therapies are reached through your GP and tend to be shorter and more structured than open-ended psychotherapy, though what is offered varies by service and by wait. It is worth asking what your practice can refer into. NHS inform explains the options, and Breathing Space on 0800 83 85 87 covers the difficult evenings.
They need not. You can keep the weekly slot and join from wherever the rota has put you, or pause for the trip and pick up on your return. What matters for depth is that the work resumes with the same person, and that we look at the leaving and returning rather than treating it as lost time.
Coping alone is often exactly what brings people to this work. Psychotherapy gives space to understand the habits that once protected you but now leave you isolated. There is no pressure to open up faster than feels safe; it unfolds at your own pace.
Usually within a week or two. After a free 15-minute consultation we agree a regular weekly slot for longer-term work, all by secure video. There is no NHS Grampian referral to wait for and no clinic in the city, so deeper work can start on your own timing.
That is your decision. Fees are £80 for 60 minutes, £100 for 90 and £120 for two hours, with a free first consultation. NHS Grampian offers limited long-term psychotherapy and often a wait, so private online work gives Aberdeen clients depth, continuity and a sooner start.
Yes. Longer-term work depends on trust and consistency far more than on sharing a room, and both build well over secure video. From your own space in Rosemount, Torry or anywhere in Aberdeen, weekly sessions provide the steady, private setting deeper therapy needs, whatever your rota.
A free fifteen-minute call is the simplest place to start, no obligation, just a chance to see if we are the right fit.
Also available online across Scotland: Dundee, Perth. See all of Scotland.
Related work in Aberdeen: counselling and therapy, depression counselling and trauma counselling.
If you would like to read more first, I have written about dislocation and the modern world.
Within reach of Sussex? psychotherapy is offered in the room in Hove, where the room is as well as online; see the full list of areas.