Communication and conflict
Breaking the cycle of the same argument.
Relationship Counselling · Rottingdean
Relationship Counselling for Rottingdean and the surrounding area, in person or online. Rottingdean is a picturesque village with its windmill, pond and High Street, set just back from the white cliffs. From my room in nearby Hove I offer a calm, confidential space to do this work.

In and around Rottingdean
Rottingdean is a coastal village with strong literary associations: Rudyard Kipling lived at The Elms, and the village retains its restored windmill and pond.
Life in Rottingdean
Rottingdean keeps the feel of a proper Sussex village on the edge of the sea, its High Street winding down past the pond, St Margaret's Church and Kipling Gardens towards the gap in the cliffs. The old windmill on Beacon Hill stands watch above, and the whole place carries a strong sense of history and community. It is a small, familiar world where people tend to know one another, which can make privacy feel important when you are struggling. A confidential counselling room a short drive along the coast in Hove offers that quiet distance, somewhere separate from village life, and online sessions provide the same discretion without leaving home.
Areas covered
Wherever you are in Rottingdean, the work is the same, a calm, confidential space shaped around you.
Relationship counselling here, for couples or individuals, slows down the pattern you are caught in and builds healthier ways of hearing and being heard.
The approach is the same wherever you come from, so rather than repeat it on every page you can read it in full, the methods, what each session covers and fees, on the main relationship counselling page and on how I work.
Sessions take place in a private, comfortable room at Intergen House on Western Road in central Hove, held to the strict BACP confidentiality you would expect. We begin with a free fifteen-minute call to check we are a good fit, and the same sessions are available by secure video if travelling is difficult or you would simply prefer it.
From Rottingdean the coast road heads west along the seafront into Brighton and on to Hove, a scenic fifteen to twenty minute drive. The 12 bus runs along the coast towards Brighton, where you can continue to Hove. There is parking near the room. When you would rather not make the trip, the same sessions are available online by secure video.
Book a free 15-minute callWhat I help with
Breaking the cycle of the same argument.
Rebuilding safety after betrayal or addiction.
Finding your way back to closeness.
Sessions you can join from different places.
Working with people-pleasing and the need for control.
You do not need to come as a couple to change the dynamic.
Relationship Counselling in Rottingdean
Rottingdean is a small, close village where people tend to know one another, which can make relationship trouble especially hard to speak about near the High Street and the pond. Relationship counselling gives you and your partner a private hour, set well apart from village life, to slow the pattern down and hear each other again. You are welcome as a couple or on your own, since one person can begin to shift a stuck dynamic. The room is a scenic fifteen to twenty minutes along the coast in Hove, with online sessions offering the same discretion from home.
Not sure if it is right for you? A free fifteen-minute call is a no-obligation way to talk it through.
Book a free 15-minute callMy counselling sits alongside the help available locally. In Rottingdean, you can refer yourself directly to the Brighton and Hove Wellbeing Service for free NHS talking therapy, with no GP referral needed.
Seeing me privately usually means you can start sooner and stay with the same counsellor throughout, working at greater depth and pace; the two can run side by side, and I am glad to work alongside any NHS or GP support you already have.
Other local and national support verified for this area includes:
This is not a crisis service. If anyone is in immediate danger call 999. For urgent mental health support, call NHS 111 and choose the mental health option. The Samaritans are free, day or night, on 116 123, or text SHOUT to 85258.
Rottingdean questions
In a private room at Intergen House on Western Road in central Hove. From Rottingdean it is a scenic fifteen to twenty minute drive along the coast road into Brighton and on to Hove. Every service is also available by secure video across the UK, so you can meet from any private space in Rottingdean or blend the two.
Yes. A great deal can change when one person shifts the pattern; you do not need to attend as a couple to do useful work.
Yes. Online makes it easy for couples in different places, or juggling childcare, to attend together.
No. We look at the pattern the two of you create together and where it gets stuck, not at who is to blame.
That is exactly why many village couples value a room set apart. Central Hove is fifteen to twenty minutes along the coast, well away from the High Street and pond, and you arrive straight to your appointment. If you would rather not travel, online sessions keep it entirely private.
Start with a free fifteen-minute call, then come over for your session. From Rottingdean the coast road heads west along the seafront into Brighton and on to Hove, a scenic fifteen to twenty minute drive, with the 12 bus running along the coast and a change for Hove.
Relationship sessions are £80 for sixty minutes, £100 for ninety and £120 for two hours, after a free fifteen-minute consultation. The NHS rarely funds couples work, so most Rottingdean clients choose private sessions, valuing a room set well away from a small, familiar village.
Yes. Couples can come to the Hove room, fifteen to twenty minutes along the coast, or share a secure video call from home, which suits Rottingdean's village closeness when privacy matters. Individuals are welcome alone. Evening slots are available, and you can mix the drive in with online sessions.
That is exactly why many village clients value a room set a little apart. Central Hove is fifteen to twenty minutes along the coast, well away from the High Street and the pond, and you arrive straight to your appointment. If you would rather not be seen travelling at all, online sessions keep it entirely private.
A free fifteen-minute call is the simplest place to start, no obligation, just a chance to see if we are the right fit.
Also available nearby: Saltdean, Woodingdean, Kemp Town. See all areas I cover.
All counselling & therapy in Rottingdean: Addiction · Substance Use · Drinking Problems · Anxiety · Depression · Trauma · Counselling & Therapy · Psychotherapy.
Prefer to meet remotely? The same relationship counselling is available online by secure video across the UK, or see online counselling by region.