Intrusive memories
Support for flashbacks, nightmares and re-experiencing.
Online Trauma Counselling · Oldham
Online trauma counselling for Oldham, by secure video. From a base in Hove I work with people across Oldham, from the town centre and the market to the streets around the old mills, with the same BACP-registered, confidential support as an in-person session, and no journey.

In and around Oldham
Life in Oldham
Close towns hold things carefully. Oldham is diverse and tightly connected, and where families and neighbours know one another well, an old injury can stay unspoken for decades, not because it is unimportant but because speaking has consequences. Trauma is broader than most people assume. A childhood, an accident, a bereavement absorbed by carrying on, a hospital night, something at home that was never discussed again. Emergency admissions for self-harm here ran at 128.5 per 100,000 in 2023/24, above the England average of 117 per 100,000. That is a measure of pressure across the borough, not a comment on anyone managing something privately near the cultural quarter or out towards the moors.
Areas covered
Wherever you are in Oldham, the work is the same, a calm, confidential space shaped around you.
The local picture
Official figures for Oldham, for context rather than as a description of you.
the rate of emergency hospital admissions for self-harm was 128.5 per 100,000 in 2023/24, above the England average of 117 per 100,000. Source: OHID Fingertips – Emergency Hospital Admissions for Intentional Self-Harm (2023/24).
Reviewed June 2026.
Trauma counselling here is gentle and led by you, drawing on methods designed for trauma including the Human Givens Rewind Technique, so a difficult memory is returned to ordinary recall.
Because the work itself is the same wherever you live, the detail sits in one place rather than all of them: the full trauma counselling page sets out the methods, session lengths and fees covers the practicalities, and my BACP registration covers accountability.
Sessions run over a secure, encrypted video link, held to the same BACP confidentiality as meeting in person. After a free fifteen-minute call, you join from any private space on a phone, tablet or laptop.
Trauma work is done online by secure video from Hove, so there is no local room and no journey while feeling raw. The format matters for this particular work. You remain in your own surroundings, decide what the camera includes, and hold the ability to end the call yourself at any second without justifying it. That control is significant when the original experience involved having none. Working with the camera off for the first stretch is entirely acceptable and quite common.
Book a free 15-minute callWhat I help with
Support for flashbacks, nightmares and re-experiencing.
Help when your nervous system is stuck on high alert.
For when you cope by shutting down.
Healing the wound that drives the habit.
Reaching the quieter, accumulated hurts.
Working always at a pace that is led by you.
Trauma Counselling in Oldham
You will not be asked to tell the story, and that principle shapes everything that follows. The Human Givens Rewind Technique, one of the main approaches used here, is built so a memory can be processed without you saying aloud what happened, which means the barrier that keeps most people away is removed at the start. The opening work is about the present: how your body is behaving now, what tips it into alarm, what sleep, temper and startle are doing, and what already helps you come down. The memory itself is approached only once that is dependable, at a speed you set, and stopping is treated as sound judgement. NHS access here is through the national NHS Talking Therapies finder, which takes self-referrals in England and can assess and route trauma cases, with your GP a sensible parallel step if symptoms are severe.
Not sure if it is right for you? A free fifteen-minute call is a no-obligation way to talk it through.
Book a free 15-minute callMy online counselling sits alongside the help available locally. In Oldham, you can refer yourself directly to NHS talking therapies for anxiety and depression, with no GP referral needed. You can find support through the NHS Talking Therapies finder.
Private sessions with me usually mean you can start sooner and stay with the same counsellor throughout; I am glad to work alongside any NHS or GP support you already have.
Other local and national support verified for this area includes:
This is not a crisis service. If anyone is in immediate danger call 999. For urgent mental health support, call NHS 111 and choose the mental health option. The Samaritans are free, day or night, on 116 123, or text SHOUT to 85258.
Oldham questions
No. The rewind approach is used precisely so that a memory can be worked with rather than recounted. What is said, and how much of it, stays your decision throughout. A brief outline is generally all that is needed for the work to go ahead properly.
Firmly in control. Confidentiality is set out at the start, including the narrow safety circumstances where it could ever be limited, and nothing is passed to relatives, employers or anyone in the community. What you bring to a session does not travel back into the town.
The national NHS Talking Therapies finder takes self-referrals across England and can assess you and point towards trauma-focused help, without any GP letter being needed first. Where sleep or safety is badly affected, a GP appointment alongside that is a reasonable step to take.
Sessions here are held in English, so that is worth being straightforward about. If English is not your first language, we can go slowly, keep sentences short and use writing where speech is harder. The rewind approach needs very little spoken detail from you in any case.
There is no single right moment. Some things settle on their own within a few weeks and need nothing. If sleep, startle or avoidance are still running your days after that, it is worth a conversation, and the free 15-minute consultation is a low-stakes way to ask.
Yes. Sessions are confidential and take place by secure video, entirely apart from your home, family and community. Nothing is shared with anyone. For many people, having that clear separation is what makes it possible to speak openly about difficult experiences.
Trauma work needs to move at your pace, so we open with a free 15-minute consultation to see if we fit, then agree a regular time. I work online with people throughout Oldham, from Chadderton to the Saddleworth villages, which means no NHS waiting list stands between you and starting.
For trauma counselling my fees are £80 for 60 minutes, £100 for 90 minutes and £120 for 120 minutes, and the first 15-minute call is free. In Oldham the NHS can offer trauma support through your GP or Talking Therapies, though waits vary; privately we can begin sooner.
For Oldham, trauma sessions are held online rather than at my Hove room, and many people find it steadying to do this difficult work from a safe, familiar space in Chadderton or Royton. I offer daytime and some evening times, and we always go at a pace that feels manageable.
A free fifteen-minute call is the simplest place to start, no obligation, just a chance to see if we are the right fit.
Also available online across North West: Manchester, Rochdale, Stockport. See all of North West.
Related work in Oldham: anxiety counselling, addiction counselling and psychotherapy.
Within reach of Sussex? trauma counselling is offered in the room in Hove, where the room is as well as online; see the full list of areas.