Intrusive memories
Support for flashbacks, nightmares and re-experiencing.
Online Trauma Counselling · Wakefield
Online trauma counselling for Wakefield, by secure video. From a base in Hove I work with people across Wakefield, from the cathedral and the centre to the streets around the Hepworth gallery, with the same BACP-registered, confidential support as an in-person session, and no journey.

In and around Wakefield
Life in Wakefield
Emergency hospital admissions for self-harm in Wakefield ran at 131.6 per 100,000 in 2023/24, above the England average of 117 per 100,000, and Pinderfields sees a share of that. What reaches a hospital is only ever a fraction. Far more sits unspoken in houses across the district: injuries from heavy work, violence, road collisions, and childhoods in the coalfield towns during years when nobody asked children how they were. The Hepworth Wakefield and the nearby Yorkshire Sculpture Park give the city a calm public face, and calm public faces are exactly what people become expert at maintaining when something has never been dealt with.
Areas covered
Wherever you are in Wakefield, the work is the same, a calm, confidential space shaped around you.
The local picture
Official figures for Wakefield, for context rather than as a description of you.
the rate of emergency hospital admissions for self-harm was 131.6 per 100,000 in 2023/24, above the England average of 117 per 100,000. Source: OHID Fingertips – Emergency Hospital Admissions for Intentional Self-Harm (2023/24).
Reviewed June 2026.
Trauma counselling here is gentle and led by you, drawing on methods designed for trauma including the Human Givens Rewind Technique, so a difficult memory is returned to ordinary recall.
Because the work itself is the same wherever you live, the detail sits in one place rather than all of them: the full trauma counselling page sets out the methods, how I work, sessions and fees covers the practicalities, and my BACP registration covers accountability.
Sessions run over a secure, encrypted video link, held to the same BACP confidentiality as meeting in person. After a free fifteen-minute call, you join from any private space on a phone, tablet or laptop.
Everything is online by secure video, because I am based in Hove and there is nothing local to come to. For this work the arrangement suits most people better anyway. You stay somewhere your body already knows, you keep control of the door and the lighting, and no journey has to be survived afterwards while you are still raw. In a district where people recognise each other, nobody sees you attending anything. We agree your signal for slowing down before starting.
Book a free 15-minute callWhat I help with
Support for flashbacks, nightmares and re-experiencing.
Help when your nervous system is stuck on high alert.
For when you cope by shutting down.
Healing the wound that drives the habit.
Reaching the quieter, accumulated hurts.
Working always at a pace that is led by you.
Trauma Counselling in Wakefield
The presenting reason is almost never the word trauma. It is sleep, or anger that arrives out of nowhere, or a place you have not driven past in eleven years. The pace belongs to you and the work is client-led from beginning to end. Retelling the event is not required at any point. Where it is suitable, the Human Givens Rewind Technique takes the emotional charge out of a memory while what happened stays private to you; it is a calm procedure and it does not involve going back through the detail aloud. Before any of that we build the ground: sleep, a reliable way to steady yourself, and an understanding of what the body is doing when something reminds it. On the NHS, the NHS Talking Therapies finder takes self-referrals in England and will assess whether a specialist service fits you better.
Not sure if it is right for you? A free fifteen-minute call is a no-obligation way to talk it through.
Book a free 15-minute callMy online counselling sits alongside the help available locally. In Wakefield, you can refer yourself directly to NHS talking therapies for anxiety and depression, with no GP referral needed. You can find support through the NHS Talking Therapies finder.
Private sessions with me usually mean you can start sooner and stay with the same counsellor throughout; I am glad to work alongside any NHS or GP support you already have.
Other local and national support verified for this area includes:
This is not a crisis service. If anyone is in immediate danger call 999. For urgent mental health support, call NHS 111 and choose the mental health option. The Samaritans are free, day or night, on 116 123, or text SHOUT to 85258.
Wakefield questions
No, at no stage. The Rewind Technique exists partly because so many people cannot bear to describe things, and it works without an account. Everything else focuses on the present-day effects. You decide what is said, and changing your mind is allowed.
Yes, and a long gap does not reduce the chances. Recurring dreams are one of the clearest signs a memory is still unprocessed rather than simply old. Work of this kind often settles the nights first, which tends to make everything else more manageable.
The 15-minute consultation we begin with is free. Sessions cost £80 / 60 min, with £100 / 90 min often chosen for trauma so nothing is rushed at the close, and £120 / 120 min if you want it. Length varies genuinely, and we review rather than predict.
You can refer yourself through the NHS Talking Therapies finder without a GP appointment, and they will assess what you describe. For some kinds of trauma they will pass you to a different NHS team. Doing that while also working privately is entirely reasonable.
Not without your say-so. Not thinking about something is a real strategy and it has often kept people going for decades; the aim is to give you a better one, not to strip it away first. Nothing is opened until there is somewhere steady to put it.
No. Effective trauma work isn't about forcing yourself back through it all. Much of it is building a sense of safety and control in the present first. We approach memories gradually, only as far and as fast as feels manageable for you.
We begin with a free 15-minute consultation, usually within a week, then a first video session at a careful pace. Working from Hove across the Wakefield district means no waiting list and no drive into the city when you're feeling vulnerable; the session comes to you.
You can; Pinderfields and NHS talking therapies are free, though often with a wait. My fees are £80 for 60 minutes, £100 for 90 and £120 for two hours. Longer sessions can suit trauma work, and privately you'd start sooner and choose the pace.
For many people, yes. Being in your own space in Wakefield, rather than an unfamiliar room after a long trip, can feel steadier. I work from Hove by secure video, and we can use 90-minute or evening sessions so there's time to settle and close gently.
A free fifteen-minute call is the simplest place to start, no obligation, just a chance to see if we are the right fit.
Also available online across Yorkshire & North East: Leeds, Barnsley, Huddersfield. See all of Yorkshire & North East.
Related work in Wakefield: anxiety counselling, addiction counselling and psychotherapy.
For anyone near the coast, the same trauma counselling runs in person in Brighton. Every area covered is listed separately.